We have different gifts, according to the grace given us. If a man’s gift is prophesying, let him use it in proportion to his faith. If it is serving, let him serve; if it is teaching, let him teach; ~Romans 12: 6-7
I was speaking with a colleague. She was expressing her dislike for the position she was in. She stated that she had a dental appointment and couldn’t wait because she would rather have her teeth pulled that day than to endure another day in that position! I was thinking, “Wow, oh my!” We talked a little more and I realized many of her decisions were made without consideration what her strengths and talents were. She had a creative talent in graphic design and had sold many ideas. Her face lit up when talking about her passion. It was exciting just to see the joy on her face. Yet, I could still remember the anguish when speaking about the current situation.
I wonder how many of us, lack passion for jobs we take on. How many of us lack the desire to even improve where we are? I am speaking about vocations, Pan-Hellenic committees, church committees, community organizations and everything in between. There are times we give just enough and post all we can to our resumes.
Many times we find ourselves trying to please others. An excessive desire to please can be a curse. A lot of people can’t be pleased and we can find ourselves constantly doing tricks and performing for approval and acceptance. This song and dance will always lead to hurt feelings, feeling empty and having regrets. People will allow you try and try to appease them, yet your performance will be like pouring water in a glass with no bottom.
Often we have to use so much extra energy just to endure tasks that we have signed up for. We sometimes transfer that same attitude to our service to the Lord. We sign up for committees we have no interest in. We obligate ourselves to several committees and over extend ourselves. Therefore, we are of no use to anyone. I believe most folk’s intentions are honorable. But when we are aiming to please others, the task can become burdensome.
Growing up I had a very strong desire to please the adult around me. Heaven forbid someone was disappointed in anything that I did. So, I found myself in a constant motion of making sure everyone was happy with me. The behavior fed my passive aggressive personality and left me feeling resentment many times.
We are not sure to live our lives to satisfy other people. We are here to live our lives to satisfy the Lord. Our talents belong to the Lord. Wouldn’t it awesome to be able to use your gift for the Lord on the right committee, on your job, in your business, in your daily life? Perhaps, you have forgotten or hidden talents? Carve out a little time for yourself and find out what they are.
Sincerly pray and ask yourself….
• Who am I in Christ?
• What am I currently doing to improve my talents?
• How can use my talents for the Kingdom?
• Where are my talents really needed?
• When can I get started?
All of these questions may take some serious soul searching with some honest answers, but it’s worth it! Always go to God in prayer and don’t plan without Him. I am a witness!!!
Don’t live the rest of your live trying to please others. Continue to seek God and he will give you the desires of your heart..
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